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“good things take time”

In my defense there is still 3 weeks until the turn of the year.  R.E.L.A.X  & smile.   Don’t be strangers.   All the best until our paths cross again.

When a Community Gets the Story Wrong

In every community, stories matter. They shape perceptions, guide decisions, and influence the reputations of individuals and institutions. But what happens when a community gets the story wrong?

When misinformation takes root—whether through rumor, assumption, or misinterpreted facts—the consequences can be far-reaching. People may be ostracized unfairly, trust eroded, and opportunities lost. Worse, the wrong story can become so deeply embedded that reversing it feels impossible.

The Power of Narratives

Communities thrive on shared narratives. They provide context, offer identity, and help individuals make sense of complex events. But narratives are also fragile. They can be twisted by emotion, bias, or the speed of social media. What starts as a misunderstanding can quickly evolve into a widely accepted “truth.”

Imagine a local teacher wrongly accused of misconduct. A single unverified claim spreads through a neighborhood, passed on by well-meaning people who “just thought others should know.” Even after the truth comes out—perhaps the teacher was exonerated or the accusation proven false—the damage is often already done. Reputations are harder to rebuild than tear down.

Why It Happens

There are several reasons why communities get stories wrong:

1. Lack of Information: In the absence of clear facts, people often fill in the blanks themselves.

2. Echo Chambers: Tight-knit groups tend to reinforce shared beliefs, even if they’re based on faulty information.

3. Emotional Reasoning: When emotions run high—anger, fear, grief—critical thinking often takes a back seat.

4. Social Incentives: Sometimes, it feels safer to go along with the dominant story than to question it. Silence becomes complicity.

The Human Cost

Getting the story wrong doesn’t just harm the person at the center of the misunderstanding. It chips away at the moral fabric of the community itself. Trust is replaced by suspicion. Dialogue is replaced by division. People learn to keep their heads down instead of speaking up.

And it’s not just individuals who suffer. Organizations, schools, places of worship—any institution that becomes the subject of an inaccurate story—can face long-term consequences, from reputational harm to financial loss.

The Road to Accountability

If communities can get the story wrong, they also have the power to correct it. But it requires intentional effort:

• Verify Before Sharing: Make it a norm to fact-check before repeating stories, especially those that paint someone in a negative light.

• Create Space for Correction: Encourage environments where new information is welcomed, not resisted. People should feel safe to say, “I got it wrong.”

• Uplift Accountability: Apologies and course corrections should be normalized, not mocked.

• Support the Wrongly Judged: Offering support to those unfairly targeted is not just compassionate—it’s a step toward community healing.

Final Thoughts

Every community is bound to make mistakes. The measure of its integrity isn’t whether it’s always right—it’s how it responds when it gets the story wrong. Will it double down on error, or will it choose the harder path of truth, even when that truth is uncomfortable?

In the end, the stories we tell—and the way we handle them when they’re false—reveal who we are. Let’s be the kind of community that listens to all sides carefully, admits missteps, and always seeks the truth from multiple perspectives before coming to the final conclusion. 

The Misunderstood Artist:  The Beauty in being Out of Sync.

RebeL.B.

Mother to many, Mom-treprenuer by day, Artist with pure delight; every minute of each hour passing.  Dreaming, Scheming, Laughing and challenging the day by day.   We were raised “normal upbringing” traversing this world taught “us” how to shape shift into an untethered soul.   Here we are now.   Hello.  I’m B.  “nice to meet you”

Some artists don’t just create; they disrupt, challenge, and confuse. They make us uncomfortable. They force us to feel. And in doing so, they often find themselves on the fringes, labeled as “weird,” “unrelatable,” or “too much.” These are the misunderstood artists—visionaries who seem out of sync with the world around them.  History shows us time and again: to be misunderstood doesn’t mean you’re wrong. It may simply mean you’re ahead of your time.

History’s Proof:  Artists the World didn’t “Get” 

Think of Vincent van Gogh—one of the most iconic painters in history. During his lifetime, he sold one painting. Just one. He struggled with mental health, poverty, and rejection. Today, his work is revered globally, and his influence on modern art is immeasurable.

Emily Dickinson, one of America’s most celebrated poets, lived much of her life in isolation and barely published her work. Her innovative use of punctuation, meter, and voice was so unfamiliar that it went largely unnoticed—until after her death.

Jean-Michel Basquiat started as a graffiti artist on the streets of New York. Critics dismissed him as just another rebellious kid with spray paint. Only later did the art world begin to grasp the raw genius and social commentary embedded in his work.

These stories aren’t rare—they’re patterns. Patterns that remind us that recognition often lags far behind originality.

The Emotional Weight of Being Misunderstood.

There is a quiet pain in being unseen. Misunderstood artists often carry heavy emotional burdens: the ache of feeling invisible, the frustration of not fitting in, and the doubt that creeps in when recognition is withheld.

But there is also power in it.

The misunderstood artist is free from imitation. Their work is born from something pure, not a desire to please. They create because they must—not because the world demands it, but because their soul does.

Many of the most transformative pieces of art came from these places of solitude, pain, and defiance.

 To be misunderstood is to be a step outside the frame, a voice a little ahead of the song. And that’s not a flaw—it’s often a sign of something powerful.  If you’re an artist who feels unseen, unheard, or out of place, take heart. You are not alone, and you are not wrong. Some of the greatest art in history had to wait to be understood.                                              Keep creating. Keep speaking.

The world may not understand today, but one day, it just might. 
                                                                                        And even if it doesn’t—what you create still matters.

We are all Unique like a snowflakes, filled with creative gifts waiting to explode into a  messy beautiful chaotic life worth living.